Doing a Nun-ly Thing

On Friday, 5 June, feast of St Boniface, apostle of the Germans and Frisians, and incidentally a very sensible monk, blessed with the friendship of many Anglo-Saxon nuns, nearly all of whom ended up as saints, we begin our annual retreat.

All most people are likely to notice is that we are not online, and those who haven’t yet discovered scheduled tweets or Facebook posts probably won’t even notice that. However, because we are not online, we shall seem to many to be inactive, silent, invisible. Some may see this as an opportunity for rest and recuperation (which it is) but we shall also be engaging in the spiritual struggle St Paul writes about. It isn’t fashionable to refer to such things. It isn’t fashionable to admit that sin and malice have warped our understanding of God, or that we need times when we plunge deeper into the mystery of grace; but we shall indeed be praying, or at any rate, trying to pray, with an intensity we can’t sustain at other times. That is, by its very nature, an interior work no one else can know much about. Our silence, our lack of presence, may seem like nun-ly negativity, but they aren’t.

I must not give the impression that we shall emerge from our eight days of retreat with a new and saintly persona. I know I won’t, alas. Exposure to prayer and scripture tends to reveal a lot about ourselves before it shows us anything of God. It can be uncomfortable, disconcerting, thoroughly unpleasant, as our remaining illusions about ourselves are shattered one by one. The moments of light relief, the holiday aspects we also enjoy during the retreat, can never distract for very long from that rather searing experience. Is it any wonder we approach the annual retreat with mixed feelings?

I take heart, however, from one very obvious fact. God is not a destroyer. It may be a long while after the retreat has ended before we see any positive good coming from it, but we can be confident that, however much we may shrink from the self we are forced to confront during the retreat itself, God doesn’t. His love never changes. Doing a nun-ly thing like making a retreat is a powerful reminder of that.

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7 thoughts on “Doing a Nun-ly Thing”

  1. Sounds very much like a ‘spiritual work break’ and wonderful as well as hard spiritually and possibly mentally as well.

    Prayers for you as you trek off on this retreat.

  2. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, Dame Catherine. I have just completed a four day Retreat and your words resonate very much with what I felt and discovered and am continuing to discover post my Retreat.
    Wishing you and the Community a very blessed and fruitful eight days. Will be thinking and praying for you.

  3. May your retreat be as rewarding for you as your online presence is for me (and all your other followers).

    Good Luck/ Have courage/ break a leg/ missing you already

  4. “God is not a destroyer.” How reassuring to hear those words and be reminded that He is our Creator and Sustainer and Redeemer. The world, as we know it, may pass away but we shall be renewed.
    Blessings to all on your Retreat (which maybe should be renamed an Advance).

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