How to Be a Friend by Bro Duncan PBGV

BigSis (a.k.a. Digitalnun) is speeding towards York for a conference, so I have commandeered the keyboard. Please don’t tell on me, ‘cos she may think I’ve been taking liberties. I take them all the time, in fact, but she doesn’t realise: she just thinks it’s my doggy nature . . .

Dogs are often described as ‘man’s best friend’, which is true, but I sometimes think you humans haven’t got a clue about friendship and what it really means. You always seem to be looking for something in return. Your friendship is often just a sophisticated kind of cup-board love, which is what you accuse us of. How often do you see on Facebook some post saying ‘we’ll see who actually reads this’, and you get to the end and there’s something or other about you won’t be friends any more if you don’t post this to your own timeline. Kibble and cats! You humans need to be more like us dogs. If you are friends with someone, you ask nothing in return except to be a friend; and being a friend isn’t difficult. You don’t need to give lots of bikkies (though I must admit, I’m always glad when a few come my way); you don’t need to lavish lots of ‘quality time’ on your friend (I’m happy just to be in my basket when They are around); you don’t need to murmur sweet nothings (I don’t mind being called ‘you old rat-bag’, honest I don’t: it’s the tone that matters); you just have to be ready to love them.

Call me quixotic if you like, but I am thinking of starting a New Movement for the Advancement of Canine Values. Friendship will be top of the list. I wonder how you humans measure up to us dogs, eh?

Love,

Dunc xx

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12 thoughts on “How to Be a Friend by Bro Duncan PBGV”

  1. Dogs just listen without the need to speak. To just sit in silence together is sometimes the best thing. There’s quite a feeling of companionship in that.
    Perhaps another thing human friendship could take on board.
    Great post Bro. 🙂

  2. Excellent words, Brother Duncan…and such is your dedication to reaching out to us as friends that you no doubt made your paws a bit sore by typing out your thoughts without BigSis to be your amanuensis. That’s no small sacrifice. Respect, Bro.

  3. Even though I am late in saying this, thank you for the reminder Brother Duncan. Spending quality time with someone doesn’t have to be that difficult and may not always involve words.

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